The Love Trap
You Know Better. But You Keep Choosing Him Anyway
You can spot a narcissist a mile away.
You know what emotionally unavailable looks like.
You've read the books.
Done the therapy.
You KNOW you deserve better.
And yet.
When you meet him, the one who gives you that electric feeling?
You're all in.
Even though some part of you already knows how this ends.
It's not chemistry. It's your nervous system choosing familiar over safe.
And calling it love.
The Pattern You Can't Break!
Here's what keeps happening:
The attraction is instant. Intense. You've never felt this way before.
Then the pattern starts:
He's hot, then cold. Available, then distant.
And instead of leaving, you:
- Text to ease your anxiety
- Apologise for having needs
- Make yourself smaller so he'll stay
- Abandon your boundaries because losing him feels worse than losing yourself
You can SEE the pattern while you're in it.
But you can't seem to STOP it.
You've been trying to think your way out of a pattern that lives in your body.
That's why it hasn't worked.
I'm done choosing love that hurts.What's Actually Happening?
Your nervous system learned that love looks like.
Anxiety. Unpredictability. Yearning. Earning
So when you meet someone who's consistent, calm, and emotionally available? Your body goes:
"This is nice... but where's the spark?"
And you ghost him.
Meanwhile, the unavailable one? The narcissist?
Your nervous system lights up.
Not in a "this is right" way. In a "this is HOME" way.
Your chest tightens. Your mind starts spinning. You feel ALIVE.
And you mistake that activation for connection.
Not because he's good for you. But because he's familiar.
That's the Love Trap.
And you're not choosing him. You're choosing hopeium.
You're Addicted To 'Hopeium'
It's the story you tell yourself to avoid the truth.
The rationalisation that keeps you texting him at midnight.
The hope that numbs the reality that he's not meeting your needs.
You're not addicted to him. You're addicted to the maybe.
And your nervous system will keep reaching for it,
until you learn to interrupt the pattern.
Real Results:
"It’s rare to meet someone who changes your life so quietly and completely. I will be forever grateful to Justine."
Jackie O,
Radio Host
Why Awareness Isn't Enough!
You already KNOW all of this. But knowing doesn't stop the attraction.
Because this isn't happening in your thinking brain.
It's happening in your nervous system.
And your nervous system doesn't change through insight.
It changes through interruption.
In the 5-second gap before you send the text. Before you apologise for his behaviour. Before you choose him over yourself one more time.
You've tried leaving after you're already hooked. After you've abandoned yourself a hundred times. After the relationship is over.
This course teaches you to catch the pattern in the moment before you abandon yourself, before you send the text, before you explain away the red flag.
Using one question.
I'm done choosing love that hurts
The One Question That Interrupts The Pattern
"Am I choosing me,
or trying to be chosen?"
This question creates the pause you need to choose differently.
When you're about to text him at midnight:
Am I choosing me or trying to be chosen?
When he breadcrumbs you and you want to accept vagueness:
Am I choosing me or trying to be chosen?
When you're about to collapse a boundary to keep the peace:
Am I choosing me or trying to be chosen?
Every time you ask it, you interrupt the automatic pattern.
And every time you choose YOU, you build self-trust.
What You'll Learn
You didn't choose this pattern. But you have learned a version of love that made self-abandonment feel normal.
We name what a Love Trap actually is and why you keep ending up in the same pain loop, even when you swear you’ve “done the work.”
The 3 Love Trap Patterns that trap you
You’ll see the exact version of the trap your nervous system runs and why your survival pattern masquerades as chemistry.
The 9 Signs You're in a Love Trap
Recognise exactly where your nervous system is running the show.
Where the pattern came from (and why hope still feels safer than truth)
You’ll understand your Love Template, and why hopeium keep you in Love Traps.
The One Question That Interrupts the Pattern
A 5-second nervous-system pattern interrupt that changes how you choose when it really counts. This will save you months and years of heartbreak.
What to do in the moments you want to self-abandon.
We walk through the most common scenarios (midnight spiral, breadcrumbing, "where is this going?") and what “choosing you” actually looks like.
How to track the moments you’d usually forget (or forgive too fast)
You’ll learn the Micro-Moment Check-In tool. A self-trust builder that tracks nervous system wins and makes your pattern so clear, it can’t keep hiding.
The 5 Gateways out of the trap and into self-trust you can feel
This isn’t just about stopping the pattern. It’s about becoming the woman who no longer needs to be chosen to feel safe.
TOTAL: 90-100 minutes
Watch the videos or take it on your walk as your own private podcast.
I'm done choosing love that hurts
Real Results:
"Dr Corry has completely changed my life and because of her I have a far warmer, loving, soul filling and purpose filled life than I ever thought possible."
Gemma O,
CEO, Three birds
What's Included
8 Video Lessons
Private Podcast Audio
3 Handouts
Lifetime Access
30-Day Money-Back Guarantee
This Course Is For You If:
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You keep attracting the same type of man
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You can spot red flags, but still end up choosing him
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"Safe" men feel boring
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You KNOW you should leave, but can't
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You want to understand WHY this keeps happening
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You're ready for ONE tool you can use in real-time to interrupt the pattern
Frequently Asked Questions
"I've already done therapy. Will this help?"
"What if I'm currently single?"
"What if I'm in a relationship right now?"
"How long does this take?"
"When does the course start?"
"Is this just the beginning? Do I need to do more?"
What this course DOESN'T include:
"What's your refund policy?"
You Have Two Choices!
Choice 1
Keep doing what you've been doing. Keep attracting the same men. Keep abandoning yourself. Keep running on hopeium.
Choice 2
Learn your pattern. Get THE tool. Start choosing yourself in the 5-second gap.
"Justine has changed my life for the better!"
"If you're smart, self-aware, and know all the right answers, but still spiral the moment you start to catch feelings... this is for you. My life has changed for the better. I am happier and healthier. I can't recommend Justine enough."
- CAROLYN.
One Last Thing
You didn't set this trap. You inherited it.
Your nervous system stored it as "This is what love looks like."
And for years, you've been choosing familiar over safe.
You might feel broken. Like something is wrong with you.
But you're not broken.
Your nervous system was doing what it was designed to do: keep you connected, the only way it knew how.
But you're not that child anymore. You have awareness now.
With The Love Trap, you'll have the tools to break the pattern.
This is where it starts.
Not when you leave. Not when you find the right guy.
But right here. In the choice to choose you.
I hope this is the start of your Relationship Reinvention. 🦢
- Dr Justine Corry.
Questions? Email hello@drjustinecorry.com
