This is for the woman who has done the therapy, read the books, and can spot a red flag in three seconds. And who still chose him anyway.
You're accomplished. Self-aware. The most insightful person in any room you walk into. And you cannot quite believe that you keep picking the same kind of man.
The hot-cold one. The emotionally unavailable one. The one your friends warned you about. The one you swore last time would be the last time.
You've done all the work. You know exactly why you do this. You still can't stop.
I'm Ready To Change This
Tell me if this sounds like you.
You can spot a red flag in three seconds. You still pick him.
You know exactly what emotionally unavailable looks like. You can name every type of man you keep ending up with. You can explain his patterns to your friends in clinical detail. And the next time someone gives you that electric feeling, you go all in anyway. Knowing hasn't stopped you.
Safe men feel boring. Unavailable ones feel like home.
When you meet someone consistent, calm, emotionally present, your body goes flat. No spark. No pull. Meanwhile the inconsistent one, the one who runs hot then cold, lights you up. You feel alive. You feel chosen. You feel like this one is different.
You can see the pattern while you're in it. You still can't stop it.
The texting at midnight. The apologising for having needs. The making yourself smaller so he'll stay. You watch yourself doing every one of those things in real time, and you keep doing them. Because losing him feels worse than losing yourself.
You've tried thinking your way out. It hasn't worked.
You've read the books. Done the therapy. Built the list of standards. And in the moment, when you meet him and the spark hits, none of it reaches you. Because this isn't a thinking problem. It's living in your body.
Imagine this.
You meet him. The familiar one. The hot-cold one. The one who gives you that electric feeling the second he looks at you.
Six months ago this would have meant the next four months of texting, drafting, apologising, making yourself smaller. The whole loop again.
Tonight, you feel the spark and you see him for what he is. Not your soulmate. A walking nervous system trigger.
Which means you can say no to him. And to the part of you that wants to abandon yourself for him again.
Not because the pattern has gone away. Because you have a way to catch it in the moment it fires. And every time you do, your trust in yourself gets stronger.
Strong enough to say no to him without explaining.
To leave before he ends it.
To trust the part of you that says something is off, instead of waiting for him to confirm what you already know.
I'm done choosing love that hurts.
Let me introduce...
The Love trap
A self-paced course that names exactly why you keep choosing him, gives you one question that interrupts the pattern in real time, and shows you what to do in the moments you'd usually self-abandon.
By the end of the love trap, you'll know:
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Which of the three love traps your nervous system runs
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The one question that interrupts the pattern in real time
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Why you can't stop choosing him (hint: it's not him)
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What to do in the moments you'd usually abandon yourself
You'll get access to:
8 VIDEO LESSONS (90–100 MINUTES TOTAL)
Watch the whole thing in one sitting, or take it on your walk as your own private podcast. Bingeable, not heavy.
THE THREE LOVE TRAPS BREAKDOWN
The hot-cold guy, the emotionally unavailable man, the narcissist. You'll find out exactly which one your nervous system runs and why.
THE ONE QUESTION TOOL
A five-second nervous system pattern interrupt you can use in the moment. Works in the midnight spiral, the breadcrumb, the "where is this going" conversation.
THE 9 SIGNS YOU'RE IN A LOVE TRAP
A diagnostic you can run on yourself in any relationship, at any stage, to know exactly where the pattern is running you.
THE MICRO-MOMENT CHECK-IN TOOL
A self-trust tracker that makes the pattern impossible to hide from. Tracks the small wins so you stop forgetting them.
LIFETIME ACCESS + 30-DAY GUARANTEE
Pay once. Keep forever. If it doesn't give you clarity and the tool, refund. No questions.
Who Am I
Dr Justine Corry
Former clinical psychologist with 20+ years in clinical practice, now relationship coach and schema therapist. Also a woman who chose the same kind of man more than once, with full clinical insight into what she was doing, and couldn't stop.
So I built what I wished I'd had. A way to catch the pattern before the choice, not after the wreckage.
Because what you need is a tool you can use in the moment, before you keep the pattern going one more time.
That's what The Love Trap gives you.
The course version of what I gave my clients to take home. The tool they could reach for when the pattern fired and I wasn't in the room.
Questions? Email hello@drjustinecorry.com
Here's what women say about
The Love Trap
Where the Love Trap stops feeling like love.
Frequently Asked Questions
"When does the course start?"
"I've already done therapy. Will this help?"
"What if I'm currently single?"
"What if I'm in a relationship right now?"
"How long does this take?"
"Is this just the beginning? Do I need to do more?"
What this course DOESN'T include:
"What's your refund policy?"
Two Choices.
- Keep doing what you've been doing. Keep choosing him. Keep abandoning yourself. Keep running on hopeium.
- Interrupt the pattern. Choose yourself. Stay in your body. Trade hopeium for self-trust.
